the world sucks and I don’t want to live in it any longer
open a bullshit fictional ‘morality’ quiz that should have absofuckinglutely nothing to do with romance
literally the second question is about romance
Petition to stop using “more than a friend” to describe romantic partners
tumblr: “uwu… why dont platonic dates exist… why dcant u platonically marry ur friends ,.. why cant u platoni c , anal sex … „, , „ „ PLATONIC “
digging this edgy new humor where we make fun of people who want sexual relationships or particularly close relationships with their friends without there being any romantic implications involved! because all intimacy has to involve romance, right? haha! and also it’s totally cool to shame people who have sex with people they aren’t romantically involved with! i can’t believe how funny aromantic erasure is these days
"We can’t use A in our acronyms because it allows shitty allies to weasel themselves in!"
Perhaps if the lgbtqia community prioritized and cared more about ASEXUALS than about straight allies, we wouldn’t have this problem.
The A is not for allies. It has never been for allies. The A is for aces. Do not rob actual members of the lgbtqia community of the little representation we have for the sake of fucking straight people.
The A is fucking necessary.
(and it’s for aromantic, too)
Okay! So i’ve noticed that sometimes social justice posts will be hard to read for people for a lot of reasons, including:
- text written in excessive caps or bold
- blocks of text that aren’t broken up
- hard to understand words that aren’t known to a lot of people
- other reasons that i cannot think of right now
since i couldn’t find a blog that rectified these problems, i decided to make one. so essentially the format of this blog will be:
you guys can submit me posts or link me to posts that are difficult to read or understand and i will try to make them accessible as best as i can! and if you have any tips for me as to how i can make posts more accessible i will be glad to hear them!
its really good that theres a list of common emotionally abusive behaviours going around but can we please not say that “mood swings” and “unpredictable responses” are themselves signs of emotional abuse
because that’s…. pretty disablist actually, considering how often traumatized or brainweird people are told that our neurology or trauma itself makes us abusive (which is a common tactic of, you guessed it, neurotypical abusers!)
dalish inquisitor throwing random elven words into their reports to fuck with their advisors. one of them goes to Solas to get a translation and he looks over it a minute and starts laughing. advisor asks him what he’s laughing at, and solas tells them it isn’t even elvish, it’s just random gibberish with elven accents thrown in.
I’m really weird about things meant to “humanize” sex workers like “yeah, she’s a stripper, but she’s also a med student with a 4.0 GPA so don’t judge her” like, okay, so, and there’s someone in that same club who dropped out of high school and is a teenage mom, does that mean she’s lesser?